Babies, Babies everywhere!

So it seems like everyone I know is with child! This whole "stages of life" is a strange thing to me. Not too long ago everyone was getting married, now they're all popping out kiddies. While I have a strong desire to have children, part of my is so selfish that I don't want to give up my freedom to do whatever, travel to wherever. I gave part of that up when I said I do, actually we both did, gladly. At this point, I'm torn, but I will have to quit wanting to plan this trip and that one and settled down in a sense. The hubby is more than ready! I find it so funny when it happens that way, I always thought I'd be ready first, but honestly I don't know that I really am.